You always have a reason–and usually, a pretty good one–
for doing what you are doing and choosing what you are choosing. Be careful not to convince yourself that you are doing something against your will. Such a thing is impossible.
Therefore, be honest with yourself as to why you are choosing to do a particular thing. Then, do it gladly, knowing that you are always getting to do what you want.
The statement “I have no choice” is a lie. You can choose.
You simply do not prefer the alternatives available to you, for whatever reason. So you
select the outcome that you most prefer.

Isn’t that power?

Neale Donald Walsch