The attraction we feel for certain people is something beyond our control. You catch sight of a man or woman, and without knowing why, you immediately fall under their spell.
Something about their physical appearance, their face or their gestures, how they behave or an atmosphere that surrounds them has an effect on you, so you try to get close to this person. This is only natural.
But the thing is, you have to realize that this kind of instant affinity does not mean that you have found your one true love, your soulmate. Except in very rare instances, the choice of the person with whom you can really build something harmonious and stable takes a great deal of time and reflection.