You always blame the conditions in life and feel that you are the victim of fate, of society, of your family and so on. No, it is you who by your attitude have consciously or unconsciously chosen your present conditions.

Change your attitude, and conditions will change. Because they are changing all the time according to the way you are, to your understanding and your behaviour.

As long as you think that external, material conditions are the determining factors, and you do nothing to reinforce and improve yourself, know that misfortunes await you. But if you give priority to the spirit, light and inner strength, conditions will eventually conform to these divine principles.
For ‘that which is below is like that which is above’, and with time, what is above ends up being realized below, in matter.

Omraam Mikhaël Aïvanhov